, is shooting to the top of the best-seller lists, and Oprah says she loves everything it has to say!
While it has about an eighth the user base of POF, clocking in at around 8 million, OKCupid is generally a lot of fun as it matchmakes using user-generated questions and quizzes, allowing users to determine how compatible their match might be with them. OKC has a Tindr like feature that allows one to rapidly rate other users, and if you and someone else rate each other highly, then OKC will let you know.
It’s a good time and not quite the craziness that POF is.
I myself was a victim of this until I recognized my part in this process and then I began dating and eventually married a man who treats me the way I deserve. Let go of the self defeating thoughts holding you back.
I have identified the following rules to change the approach:1. How fun is it to hang out with someone who only puts themselves down?
This is a very controversial book, but absolutely brilliantly researched and presented.