Hell, I just gave a TEDx talk about this very thing.
Men scramble to approach women like rats chewing on a meaty chicken bone, and then wonder why women are so turned off by them.
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I do fairly well for a guy I may get 1 or 2 messaged a day but I have male friends who have never received a single message.
So I have spoken to a few girls that have told me that their inbox is flooded with messages on POF. So if there are in fact twice as many men on here than women it seems women can have their pick.
Once considered a realm inhabited only by the socially awkward, online dating is now just another tool in the toolbox, no matter whether you’re looking for a hook-up or your soulmate.....
To explore this topic, I pulled aside two individuals who I knew were hunting for a long-term relationship using online dating websites, and asked them about their experiences with the services.
Ironically enough, if you could take the best of those women and the best of those men, and place them in a big room where they could sit at a table and ask each other questions in person – you’d probably have 4 or 5 new match-ups by the end of the night. All they have to do is get online every day, sitting on their princess throne and file through the dozens or more profiles of men who have messaged them throughout the day.