Have the one-or two-liners turned into novellas you read and reread again and again? If you’ve exchanged multiple messages or emails with a new interest online and he hasn’t asked you out yet, throw him a “softball.” A softball is your letting him know, indirectly, that if he asks you out he can be assured of a yes. For a man, it’s a casual, no pressure, budget-friendly, really nice way to find out if someone is a match for you. It makes it more real for them and also feels more personal!
If so, you’re likely headed deep into the throes of a pseudo-relationship unless you move quickly! For example, tell him you love to explore new cafes or coffee houses. Hopefully he suggests something similar without the prompt; but if he seems interested yet doesn’t initiate, feel free to say, “I enjoy online dating but know, for me, that meeting in person is an important step. If he tells you to “call him sometime” and leaves his number, Dating With Dignity recommends you go “old school” and let him know that while you’re flattered, you “don’t call men.” Tell him you’re happy to give him your number though. Even though you’re dating 21st century style, you don’t have to do the asking or be the one who pursues. While it can be tempting to have long, intimate phone conversations with someone you really find yourself liking, a phone call before meeting in person is much different than talking on the phone after you’ve started dating someone.
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